Under our photo, a friend called me fat and advised me to delete the bad picture: I had to teach her a lesson 😢😢
My husband and I had planned this vacation for a long time. At the last minute, we booked a trip to the sea, and just one day after flying, I was standing on the shore.
I always knew I didn’t fit the molds — but he was there beside me. His arms held me not out of pity, but with pride. And I needed nothing more.
On the third day, we took a photo — at sunset, by the sea. We simply hugged. I posted it on social media.
The comments were warm, sincere. “You are so real.” “Love is what matters.” “You look like a scene from a movie.”
And suddenly:
“Sorry, but this photo ruins your reputation. You look like a fat lady from the market. Delete it if you don’t want people to laugh at you.”
This was written by my best friend. The one I went through college with, her breakup, sleepless nights, tears, jokes.
I read the message three times. My heart didn’t beat. It just stopped.
I didn’t reply immediately. I didn’t delete the photo. I just closed my laptop and went to my husband.
That night I cried and decided I needed to explain to my friend that this behavior was unacceptable. And that’s what I did. Continued in the first comment 👇👇
I didn’t break off the relationship openly. I just quietly disappeared from her life. But before that… I made a second post.
In the photo, my husband and I are in the water, laughing, holding hands. I’m in a swimsuit. The caption was simple:
“I was never thin. But I was always loved.
And for those who measure beauty by numbers — I have bad news: you will never feel true love.
P.S. Thanks to everyone who truly can see hearts. And to those who are no longer with me — good luck, you’ll need it.”
A few hours later, the friend wrote again — a long apology. That she “meant well,” “was worried,” “didn’t think.”
But I didn’t open the message. I just left her in the past.
Two days later, I started my blog about body, acceptance, and self-love. It gained 30,000 followers. People wrote that I inspired them to go to the beach for the first time in years.
